Here is a great article, despite being written many years ago is still on point today. The author is Shelley Taylor-Smith a 7-time world marathon swim champion.
It's about who’s in your corner, who’s on your team. Having a positive team of people IN your life can apply to every aspect of your life so this applies not only to all you athletes out there but for anyone.
Here is Shelley’s article:
Who’s on my team?
Here’s a strategy I used to great success throughout my swimming career, I wouldn’t have achieved what I did without assembling a great group of people around me.
I would always think “who’s on my team?”
The most profound influence from the “outer world” is most certainly OTHER PEOPLE.
The people you allow into your life and who you spend the most time with, are the greatest external factors to the direction your life will take. Yes, external influences are that powerful.
It is known that you will be the combined average of the 5 people you spend the most time with; you will have the combined lifestyle, health practices, thinking processes, expectations and income.
Think about it. Whatever is consistently entering your experience ends up becoming your reality. Similarly, whoever is consistently in your experience is bringing dominant thoughts, attitudes and actions to your reality.
Who we spend our time with determines what conversations dominate our attention and the observations, attitudes and opinions we are repetitively being introduced to. Eventually, we start to eat what they eat, talk like they talk, read what they read, watch what they watch, treat people how they treat people, even dress like they dress and think like they think. All the while this may not even be a conscious transition.
Your associations don’t shove you in a direction; they nudge you ever so slightly over time.
Have you ever been out to eat with a group of people who are more health conscious than you might normally be? Did you find yourself compelled to order something a little more healthy than normal? That is the power of associations; you were influenced to match their “stride”.
Unfortunately the same compulsion is true if you go out to eat with a group and everyone orders multiple drinks, heavier foods, deserts etc. Even though you will try your best to be a maverick, over time you will slowly but surely start “matching” their stride as well.
This is true of attitudes, expectations, perspectives, beliefs, opinions, etc – in every area of your life.
Even the most self-contained individual is subconsciously lured into the grip of associations’ influence. But what can we learn from this as swimmers? Well, is there someone that you train with that carries a lot of negativity with them? Someone who is always looking on the downside or doubting themselves? Is there even a coach or group leader who has a negative approach or an elitist attitude? If so, seriously consider changing your training routine to free yourself from this negative influence. Like it or not, if you’re in the presence of this person they’re on your team!
Or, do you know someone you admire who is the athlete you aspire to be? Or someone who has the positive approach or dedication you’d love to have? One great thing about pool swimming is that you might not be as quick as another swimmer but you can be in the same lane or pool and pick up on their positivity and dedication. Ask them for tips or advice, even ask them what their secret is – a few flattering words will pull them in closer, and increase their positive influence on you.
If you’re looking for a training squad or group, make sure you observe the coach or group leaders in action. How do they talk to their swimmers? What’s their approach to motivation? Consider this as important as their technical knowledge as a coach. Remember everyone you train with is on your team – pick your team carefully and they’ll start to rub off on you!
Observe the relationships around you. Pay attention.
Seek relationships with quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love & truth around you.
Shelley Taylor-Smith: 7-time World Marathon Swimming Champion, Self-Motivation Teacher, Success and Performance Coach. https://championmindset.com.au/achievements.htm
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